Were you betrayed by the one you love? Yet despite all the pain she caused, you still want to get your girl back. That sounds familiar, it’s very hard to let go of someone you love. But if infidelity is the cause of the breakup, it’s not enough to get her back. This time, you need to make her stay.
How do you do that? By finding out the very reasons women cheat in relationships. Learn from them and avoid future heartbreaks.
Did she ever get the impression that you were cheating on her? Because if she was, then she may have felt that a little justice is in order. Some women are unwilling to sit back anymore, to stand in the background hoping that things will be right again. No more submissive, Ms. Nice Girl. This time, it’s an eye for an eye.
Not desirable enough?
Did you ever give her enough compliments, pay attention to her, make her feel beautiful and special? Because women need that, they need to feel that their partner needs them and desire them. If they don’t, if someone else can give them the admiration, then they may be tempted enough to lean towards that direction.
If some other guy can make them feel special, then their longing for such admiration can be overwhelming. They’ll seek the desire and love that may lack in your relationship. If she feels lonely because you’re not giving her enough attention, then she may find attention somewhere else.
If you’re trying to get your girl after she cheated, it’s best to take a look at your relationship. Were you truly happy together? Or did you lose that spark, the passion you once felt and now it’s all monotonous?
One of the reasons why women cheat is because the relationship has lost its excitement. Boredom took its toll, everything is just so…predictable. Affairs seem exciting because you get to sneak around, it’s even better if can get away with it.
When you get your girl back, try new things so your relationship wouldn’t be monotonous. It doesn’t have to be extreme, but you can try more activities together or even make travel plans for weekends.