Confessions From Mumbai’s BDSM Underground Scene

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For most people, sex is passionate and intimate. And then you have people who are into BDSM. Where your imagination stops, their fantasies begin. From vanilla stuff to brutally hitting another person, from passionate make-out sessions to rough sex, people who follow the BDSM lifestyle push every boundary to spice up their sexual life.

Last week, Bayside Journal gave you a sneak peek inside Mumbai’s secret world of BDSM. Today, we give you confessions of three hardcore BDSM practitioners. Let us know if they turn you on.

He F****d Me in Front of Other People

Nia* and Naveen* have known each other for almost eight months.

“I was a Dom (dominant) until I met him. He’s filthy rich. Once we were on a private island and were making out when he commanded, “Strip”. Within a moment, I was naked in front of him. Then he called the manager and the chef to watch us.

Naveen: Would you like to watch her, while I f**k her?

It was like a live session; who would have said no! Naveen asked them to come closer to me and stand just a little distance away. No one could touch me except him.

Later, he asked the manager and the chef to give me a bath. Just. A. Bath!

The Extramarital Affair

“Mohit* and I dated each other for almost two years before we broke up. Three years later, I married Adarsh*, and everything was good. However, I was never satisfied sexually by Adarsh. I am a Sub (submissive) and I need someone who can understand my needs.

One lazy day, I was shocked to find Mohit’s profile on a BDSM dating website. I texted him, “Never knew you were into kinky things.”

Mohit: “Never knew you were too. I’d loved to use a belt on you.”

That instantly turned me on, and we started our extra-marital affair.”

I Married My Dom

You know there’s a problem when you struggle to find acceptance in the world of BDSM. Yet, that is precisely what Rina* felt.

“I have been abused in my previous relationships where I was a sub; no one wanted to look after my needs. My first Dom used to beat me up everyday, not for pleasure, but because he liked making me cry and then having sex with me. I never enjoyed it. The same pattern followed in the next two relationships I was in.

Then I met Nilesh*. He was different; he wanted to be obeyed. He disliked it when I didn’t follow him, but my pleasure and satisfaction meant the most to him. He would introduce me to things I have never tried in my life. He used breast and vaginal clips on my body. It hurts, but not much if used properly. He knew how much pain I could take. I was commanded to use the safe word. No one really took care of these things before.

In fact, he popped THE question at one BDSM party. There was another man who was pleasuring me (on Nilesh’s instructions, of course), when he asked me, “Will you marry me?”

The rest is a long story, I wasn’t convinced, but then he explained to me how our relationship would work. Other people could touch us, but only he could have sex with me and that same rule applied to him. At times, we even change roles. For the last two months, I have been his Dom and he has been the Sub. It’s pretty cool this way.”

*Names changed on request.