It is not easy to take a girl’s virginity. It is a very sensitive issue and a lot of guys can get embarrassed about. You want to take a girl’s virginity in a way that makes her feel very comfortable. She is naturally nervous about her first time, but you can give her an unforgettable experience. If you are reading this, you are a boyfriend or that special boy in her life. Naturally, you want to make sure that your partner will feel comfortable when you have sex with her for “her first time.” You are a person that is sensitive to her and is a caring person who wants her to remember this first time in a positive light. With good intentions, you will find it very easy to be sensitive to her needs and make her first time something that she will never forget. She’ll never forget her first time, so make the most of it.
First, be sure that your girl is someone you sincerely care about. You wouldn’t want her first time to be something disappointing for either of you and if you don’t really care about her, she’ll feel it and won’t be fully comfortable giving her virginity to you. Another thing some guys forget about is making sure that the two of you are both of legal age to give consent to having sex. It’s not something you want to have on your mind while making love to her, but it should be taken into consideration for both your sakes.
Be sure that you are ready to have sex at any time, don’t forget to keep a condom on your person. While many girls like to plan out their first time have sex, it usually ends up happening spontaneously which can be the best way to have a really romantic and intimate moment.
Don’t neglect the environment.
Just because the back seat of a car is a popular place for the first time doesn’t mean that it’s a good one. You don’t want her uncomfortable with not being able to move into the right position or worried about getting caught. You want her somewhere where she can feel safe and comfortable with you.
She’ll naturally be nervous. This is OK. A little alcohol can do wonders to soothe nerves, however, neither of you should be drunk for her first time. That leads to awkward sex.
When you have everything ready for sex, condoms, a comfortable environment where you won’t be disturbed, put on some music and set the mood.
Start off with a lot of foreplay, you want her so turned on that being nervous doesn’t cross her mind. You shouldn’t even think about penetration until she’s dripping wet and dying to have sex with you. Make sure she’s lubricated enough and if not, use some lube.
Enter her slowly, the first penetration will hurt, but if you do it slowly and gently, it won’t hurt her much. Be sensitive to her, make sure that she knows she can ask you to slow down or stop if it starts to hurt, she won’t need you to, but she might be worried about having to ask. Tell her beforehand so that she doesn’t have to think about anything but feeling good. Once she’s used to the feeling of you inside her, you can start with slow shallow thrusts, staying gentle and letting her choose how fast you go. As she starts to feel more comfortable, she’ll be asking for it harder, faster, and deeper in no time.
That’s about all there is to it. If she’s feeling a lot of pain, have her get on top of you so that she can control the exact speed and depth, eventually, she’ll find the rhythm that gives her the most pleasure and the least pain.
Follow these tips and you will be remembered as a sensitive and caring man who made her first time something unforgettable.