Is it possible to make a guy regret losing you? Yes, it is, and you don’t even have to be mean or vindictive about it. If you try to use revenge as a way to make him regret losing you, then it will only come around to bite you in the end. If you’re still madly in love with your man even though he dumped you or if he did something that forced your hand and you dumped him, then there are ways to get him begging you to take him back. Here’s how you can make him think about you constantly and make him desperately want you.
The first thing you will need to do is break off contact for a while. This should usually be a period of 2-3 weeks. During this time you won’t call, text, or email your man, and if he tries to contact you, then you simply don’t reply or you reply by telling him you think it’s best if you both have some space right now. If you are forced to see him because you have the same classes, the same job, or hang out in the same places, then be polite and friendly, but don’t get into any long conversations.
Breaking off contact is the first step in making a guy regret losing you because you need to make him miss you. If you aren’t talking to him, then it will drive him crazy thinking about where you might be and what you might be doing. You’ll be on his mind constantly and he’ll miss every single minute he’s not with you.
You need to be strong about the no contact rule because if you text him back, call him, email him, or leave messages on his Facebook and MySpace pages, then he can’t really miss you because you’re still around. Also, never approach him if you’re emotionally distraught. You want to remain strong and confident if you want to make him regret losing you and desperate to get you back. Seeing that you are OK and happy without him will throw him for a loop and make him totally desire you again.
If he dumped you, then he may think that he holds all the power in the relationship. He probably expects you to be sad, lonely, and depressed without him. Make him desire you by going out with friends and having fun. Don’t sit around being sad and depressed. He won’t be able to stand the thought of you being out with other people having fun and being happy. When he starts to feel like he can’t have you, that’s when he’ll start wanting you again.
After a while, as he starts to regret losing you, he will try to make contact but don’t give in just yet. If you decide to pick up the phone, then be friendly, but keep conversations short. Maintain the power dynamic in your favor by being the one to end phone calls first. To make a guy regret losing you, you need to make him crazy thinking about you and what he needs to do to get you back. When he wants to talk to you or hang out, and you only give him a little bit of your time, then he will keep craving you more and more because he’s not getting enough of you.
When things get to that stage, you’ll have total control of the situation.