Affirmations are one of the most powerful ways to create pretty much anything you want in life. No matter what you’re trying to achieve, there are always two aspects to getting it, whether it’s a sports goal, a monetary goal, or endless sexy girls in your bed begging for your attention.
What are these aspects? The inner game, and outer game.
Most people focus only on the outer game. Sure, the outer game is critical. After all, how you will interact and interact with others will determine what you get. You can not sit there in the corner of the bar visualizing success and expect girls to voluntarily walk over and start taking throwing their panties at you.
You’ve got to get up off your duff and go and talk to a few of them before you get the good stuff.
However, this does not mean that inner game is irrelevant. No sir. In fact, with a strong enough inner game, the outer game will take care of itself. Instead of trying to jack up your self-confidence and using some kind of goofy opener, you’ll just calmly walk up to her, say whatever’s on your mind, and let the conversation flow normally and naturally. Right from the club into your bedroom.
Without the strong inner game, that’s going to be difficult.
But how do you build up the strong inner game? It all boils down to your beliefs. Most of us have this deeply informed beliefs, programmed into our brains before we even learned to talk, that we are not “good enough.”
So when we walk up to a girl, and she does not immediately start begging for sex, we see it as validation of our deepest and darkest fears.
So in order to build up a rock solid inner game, you’ve got to get over that belief of “I’m not good enough” and the endless variations we tell ourselves.
Affirmations. Now, you may have tried them. Many people have. But it takes a bit more work than repeating a few lines a couple times now and then. You’ve got to do them consistently, with emotions, and with visualizations. Otherwise, you’re wasting your time.
Here’s how you do them.
First, come up with a legendary movie in your mind that PROVES to anyone who’s watching it that you’re a powerful, confident, and charismatic. Believe that girls want you. Believe that you’ve got options.
Create your movie, and fill with as much positive sexual energy as you can.
Create five or six short affirmations that match your movie.
“I am powerful.”
“I am attractive.”
“Girls desire me.”
“Girls enjoy me.”
Now, at least once a day, for at least ten minutes, repeat these affirmations along with your emotionally charged mind movie.
How long will this take? Your results may vary. But consider this question:
If you KNEW, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that if you did this for ten or twenty minutes, EVERY SINGLE NIGHT for one year, that you would easily and automatically pull the hottest girls from any club in the world, would you do it?