Life Is full of expectations

Life is a beautiful miracle

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I believe in living Life to the fullest..What’s your take on Life?….You all must have a lot of expectations from your life and you can make it work only if you make a positive approach towards life……Then again I am not saying that though we expect a lot from life it doesn’t mean that it has to work out that way…Does it? Because at the end of the day you become to realize that these expectations are the main cause of the problems in life…We expect every possible thing to be work out the way we want right from the early stages of our life and these little things become bigger and bigger as we grow up..  yeah some people do work it out but what about the others.If things don’t work out their way we get depressed, frustrated, angry and even start complaining…In this whole process, we start accusing others, ourselves, God or say it’s part of our karma blah blah..until the time we get that thing right…But what if our expectations are never met..Should we end our life? Should we get mad and go on top of the roof and shout our hearts out and say it aloud  ??Every single day we will come across such things in life……Have you ever realized why most marriages are unsuccessful…..because of the expectations of LOVE…It’s in fact complicated for some young couples to overcome their egos and love unconditionally being selfless.The boy / Girl have their own set of expectations and they expect it to be fulfilled by one another which is practically impossible in this era of the 21st century…Most of us want everything to be PERFECT.Of course, we need all these things in life…Money, Education, good career, good parents, good husband/wife, good kids…the list goes on…But keep these to a certain limit…We should rule them and don’t let them rule us…Even if we have all these things we always face some kind of misery in our life and that reminds us of God and we plead him to make everything perfect for us…Enjoy and appreciate the little good things that happens in our life Remember nobody or nothing is perfect in life…It’s really up to us to make it PERFECT.

But just for a second have you ever thought of those people who are homeless, under privileged, orphaned, old aged etc who can have no expectations from life as they know whatever they get through charity or any other reliable sources, the same is not enough and so they are at least happy with what they have…So be happy with what you have and don’t expect too much from life….Live to love life…

If you love life you will know how to withstand whatever stones/thorns come your way…Though our life has ups and downs and is tangled with risks at times,  we are ready to take it as we all love our life and for each one of us, our life is dedicated to our family…Life is one of the most beautiful & remarkable gifts from God and that’s why you must take utmost care of it as it is not your own and we owe it to him…It’s a valuable gift which can never be bought or sold …Let’s all realize the truth that God has created us for a purpose and we have to give our 100% to fulfill it before the soul departs our body…

Now the challenges we face in our life that too plays a vital part in our life…Challenges in the form of competitions also lead to comparisons of ourselves with friends, relatives and we start judging yourselves.The Same thing continues when we get a job and simultaneously affects our personal life…In this analyzing / judging process, we have to prove ourselves in every single step…We have to prove that we are toppers in every field be it in school/college…Work wise we aim for the highest position don’t we? But in this race are we living life the way we want or it’s just a show off to others…Are we really happy with what we have in life or its just a status update which you give via mobile / iPad in Orkut, twitter and the now most famous Facebook loving called FB?

There’s absolutely nothing wrong in building our expectations.Nobody can stop you from dreaming.Dream big to achieve Big…But remember,  we are not losses at the end of the day if we don’t get it by the end of the day.

We must realize that there are some expectations in our life which we can’t control or it’s not up to our level to achieve.If it has to happen it will definitely happen…

Life is a beautiful miracle, full of opportunities.It’s a box of chocolates…you never know what you may get!!! It’s your choice to choose the right path.Remember there is always a choice in life…When you get up in the morning, your morning will be good/bad depending on the choice you make that is to be happy or not to be happy whatever we are or wherever we are…

So come on open you alluring eyes and realize the truth that after all, we have just one life, irrespective of the superstitious facts that we have 7 lives. Nah I don’t believe it. Do you?? Anyways so it’s our prime duty to make it be the one with a motive.We all are in this world for an authentic reason.So stop grumbling over the shortcomings in your life.Bring Love, Joy, and happiness into your world because life is a flower but love is a petal of that flower which makes it more precious and safe in your hands.Let us carry on smiling at life, always thinking about the brighter side and the world will smile with you…So Keep SMILING at God’s remarkable gift!!

Source by Shahija Khan