Marriage is outdated… a stupid concept..an impossible arrangement..too arduous a journey..too much to expect…too much of a compromise for comfort…would not work in ‘today’s’ times…An individual matters more today, so hell with marriage…ITS MY LIFE so who wants to be ‘steered’ around by someone else…it goes on and on and on..and I would not much different at any of it…. BUT…

Whether it lasts for long between two people…whether it lasts forever till death does them part..or it lasts for six months…But as long as it lasts and there is love between two people, whether from before marriage or after as in arranged ones…yet…it is possible, two people discover each other by each passing day and start to ‘get along’ and then move on further to even figure out that they can respect each other for what they are and eventually dig in deeper and ‘hit’, Love…and what a sweet sound that makes when one ‘hits’ it, all of a sudden, and there is a sweet ‘tingle’ in the nerves, and a shiver passes through the body and a smile comes to the lips, that spreads right into the eyes..and lights up the whole ‘being’…yet it can be and it is, that good in an arranged marriage, quite often…

Which ever way it be,..and no matter how long it lasts or does not last, as long as to people find love, respect, and attraction for each other…there can be no experience as fulfilling as a marriage….
I for one should know that..like so many of us out there…have been through girl friend, live in..and marriage.

Those moments when I feel the most rotten and ‘washed out’ in life….
Those moments when I feel dejected, depressed or feeling a loser,
Those moments when I feel defeated and lost…
This woman smiles to me and tells me that I AM the guy..and the honesty that just emanates from her and seeps into every pore of my body…No ‘GF’ or a ‘live in’ could ever make me feel the way She does…

Those moments when I am the happiest…
Those moments when I feel at the top of the world…
Those moments when the best things in life happen to me…
There is no joy on the planet like sharing it with her..No ‘GF’ or a ‘live in’ could ever get me to feel the joy, the way She does…

Those moments when I feel frightened, of anything
Those moments when I am afraid, of anything
Those moments when I only see nothing but darkness all the way down the lane…
There is no catharsis like crying in her arms…NO ‘GF’ or a ‘live in’ could ever make me feel the way she does…

Those moments when she does not see me for a few days…
Those moments when she is not around for days that go beyond tolerating her absence…
Those moments when she is there to receive me..or I am there to receive her…
And I miss a beat when I see her..and she goes ‘blush’ as she sees me..even if we have been a couple long enough for the ‘seven-year itch’  to have taken over…
No ‘GF’ or a ‘live in’ could ever make me feel, the way She does…

Those moments when I am ill…
Those moments when I need to be nursed, when in pain…
Those moments when it is embarrassing to talk about my suffering to anyone else, at times
Nothing makes me more comfortable than to know that she is there to take care of me…
Those moments when she is sick…
Those moments when she needs to be taken care of…
Nothing makes me happier than putting every thing on hold and ‘serve’ her first,
No ‘GF’ or a ‘live in’ could ever make me feel the way She does…

Those moments when I ‘burp’ and ‘fart’, without care…
Those moments when I drop the food on the table as I serve my self…
those moments when I am plain silly and is just an idiot…
And she gets irritated and yells ‘Asshole’…
There is No fun like ‘breathing’ down her neck!
No ‘GF’ or ‘live in’ could ever make me feel the way She does…

Those moments when nothing seems to move on…
Those moments when nothing seems to work.
Those moments when I am certain that the world is ‘conspiring’ against me…
But I yell at her…And she takes it all in..then sits in a corner not known to me and
cries it out.No ‘GF’ or a ‘live in’ could ever do that for me…
And later in the night as she sleeps, and I hold her, coz I was not brave enough to say ‘sorry’
to her…and slowly I feel her arms around me as if nothing happened…
Never felt that immense, immeasurable ‘love’ at that moment for any ‘GF’ or a ‘live in’…
No ‘GF’ or a ‘live in’ could ever make me feel the way She does….

Those moments when pushed in a corner.
Those moments with backs to the wall…
Those moments when hitting with a ‘dead end’…
Never felt that fun, as it is ‘fighting it out’, along with her…
No ‘GF’ or ‘live in’ could ever make me feel the way She does…

Those moments when one felt it was ‘cracking’ up.
Those moments when it almost ended…or
The time when it Actually gets ‘over’…
It could never be as heart breaking, with a ‘GF’ or a ‘live in’.
No ‘GF’ or a ‘live in’ could ever make me feel the way She does…

Source by Harsh Chhaya

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