Mastering “the game” and becoming massively successful with women begins with gaining the right knowledge — about female psychology, and the art of attraction. The other thing you must acquire is experience. The best pickup artists are willing to approach hundreds (even thousands) of random women in order to perfect their techniques and eliminate their shyness. Gaining the correct knowledge (including the specific tactics and techniques) and then putting it to use, by actually approaching women and starting interactions, is the formula you must use if your goal is to become incredibly successful at picking up girls.
The first thing you need to realize is that girls aren’t doing you a favor by talking to you. The majority of them are just as eager to meet a guy as you are to meet them. So have confidence when you approach women. When you talk to a girl you don’t want to ask her permission to talk to her. Think of it as HER opportunity to demonstrate why she is worthy of your time and attention. This doesn’t guarantee you success, but it will lessen rejections because the woman will see you as equal instead of her inferior.
Before you approach a woman, think about your pickup line. The last thing you want to do is get tongue tied or stumble over your words. You’ll want to learn several effective openers that women find naturally interesting. When approaching women, the most effective “openers” do not sound like they;’ve been rehearsed; they sound natural, capture her interest, and prompt her to give a thoughtful response. It’s important for you to be prepared with openers that you can use in any situation, but at the same time you must develop the ability to improvise. Notice things about the woman you’re approaching and be ready to respond to what she says. You don’t want to seem as if you rehearsed what you were going to say.
To pick up the girls you want to date, you need to keep practicing. If you have trouble approaching women, you may want to read a guide and then try using all those tips. Make note of which ones work the best for you, and play to your strengths. Don’t take rejection personally. Focus instead on the next girl you want to ask out. Of course, there is a lot more to picking up girls, but these three tips will get you started. Anyone can discover how to pick up more women than they thought possible if they are willing to spend a little time and effort.