When your ex is not ready to continue in the relationship the best thing for you is to move on. But it is easier said than done. If you have been really in love with somebody then how can you just move on and forget everything. If you are able to get over it then it really means that you were never in love with that person. Most of the “experts” in ‘Human relationship’ would ask you to get over the situation as soon as possible. You would find the same message in the related books as well. For people, it is a lot easier to suppress your feelings than actually facing them. If you are able to understand and comprehend your emotions then it would result in a better state. If you can realize your mistakes in the relationship then it would ease your situation.
Life teaches a lesson in every phase. So it is our responsibility to face every part of life in a very positive way. If somebody moved out of your life then it means that life wants to show you it is another face. And whose sad life is easy? Never disregard anybody if you have been in any kind of relationship. Please think that how would you feel when somebody disregards you. People react in a very different way in such situations. Some just prefer to remain silent and some become very violent. Some even go to the extent of lying to the person with whom once you were in love. But the real person is the one who would take a stand and will take it as learning out of life. It makes sense to teach the other person that what you all have learned out of all this.
In a social life, people tend to make images of the people in their lives. What kind of image do you want to hold in other’s eyes? I think at least we would like to have a vibrant image. So that everybody can remember with good feelings after the breakup or separation. Sometimes life teaches you lessons in a hard way. You need to end relationships in a friendly way.
It also depends upon the different roles that you need to play in your life. And all of these different roles have different emotions attached to them. The same is the case with your ex. He/she also has a lot of responsibilities to take care of in different relationships. And he/she would be taking the image in the way you would present her/him. The best thing to do in such situations is, to be honest. In any relationship, we should try to inspire each other’s spirits for a healthy living.
This life is full of ups and downs and it is a journey which makes you learn so many things which are an ongoing process. You should not let your relationship breakup get into the situation where it becomes difficult for you to look deep inside into your soul. Don’t let fear of the unknown take over your soul. You need to move on from here and live your life better.