How To Eradicate Negative Experiences From Your Past Right Now

Overcome the fear and look at your bright future

A great description of the inner game would be The manifestation of confidence and self-assurance that comes with the knowledge that you are in control of the way you approach women and you Are the great seducer that you’ve always known yourself to be. How do you work on this inner knowledge so that you are aware of your ability and know this new seduction artist in you to be inherently real?

The very first step in building these barriers of confidence into the strong inner game is by eradicating all previous bad experiences with women from your conscious mind. I want you to visualize the most extreme example of a tragic event that has to do with early experiences with a girl.

This may be a humiliation that occurred because you asked a girl out and she laughed at your face with people watching. Or it might be something more benign such as loving a girl who really never paid you attention during the science class five years ago.

Whatever it is, close your eyes now and lean back in your chair while bringing this bad emotional trauma with a girl to your mind. I want you to visualize that bad experience in your mind like you are watching it play out in a huge movie theater with Dolby Digital sound.

Now put that same part of the experience in black and white. After that, start replaying the bad experience backward. Next, make the entire screen extremely small and shrink it down until you can not see it anymore. Congratulations! You have now eradicated that negative image in your mind forever and it should never bother or impede your very first approaches with women and the ones that come later.

Even if you’ve had numerous traumatic experiences with women, you can use this technique to eliminate each single one of them. It may take days or even a week or two, but those traumatic experiences will leave your mind ever and permanently.


Visualize the worst-case scenario in your head right now and focus on that scene like you are in a movie theater watching it unfold in front of you in Technicolor and Dolby Digital. Then keep replaying that slap in black and white, and then make it go backward.

After that, make the image very small and insignificant at the movie theater until it disappears altogether. You have just made the MAJOR move to eradicating approach anxiety from your life forever. You still have some inner game confidence building techniques to end approach anxiety in a more in-depth manner, but the real fear that you felt the last time you saw a hot girl that you wanted to speak to should now be gone from your life.

Source by Rob Mead