Nothing is worse than the heartbreak of being separated or divorced. Where once you were together, now you are alone. You would like nothing better than to get back your wife. But to do so, you need a plan.
You have a couple options in developing your plan. First, you could consult some book on the subject. There are several well-written ones available. You could also talk to a counselor. A counselor can help you develop a plan based on what is going on in your relationship. However, this can be expensive. Finally, you can try and piece when together from the Internet. The only problem with that is there is a lot of bad advice out there. You may risk driving her further away.
To win her back, you need to understand her. Understanding a woman is one of the toughest things for men. Women are complex pieces of machinery. There are a lot of different switches and levers that you do not need knowingly what to do with. Flip the wrong one, and she blows up at you. Turn the wrong knob, and she breaks down crying. Not only that, but each woman is drastically different. The schematics for one will not apply to another.
However, there is one thing most women have in common. They love romance. They like to be pursued. They also want to know that you are always going to be there for them. If you can show you are willing to overcome any obstacle in order to be together, you may have a chance to get back your wife.